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Posted: Thu Apr 16th, 2009 05:30 pm |
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DoctorEdd wrote: Specifically, VanSciver and Davis, as well as Knorr, repeatedly claim innocence. The Seaford NJROTC unit has been implicated in female discrimination, hostile environment, and sexual issues in the past. I know this first hand. I am the parent of a female student who was subject to several improprieties as a senior student at Seaford.
Frankly, it is only the fact that I am a Christian that these folks, including the NJROTC men, even have a job.
By the way, after warning him that the situation at the SHS was destined to continue, one of the last statements I said to Jim VanSciver was that the behavior of the men involved, and those allowed to have contact with young women at Seaford SHS, will only get worse.
Perhaps your being a Christian did no favors for other young people.
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Posted: Thu Apr 16th, 2009 04:38 pm |
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Great Post Dr.Ed.
I am proud that some people stand up for what is right. Congrats on your daughters progress! What is ignorant about situations like these are that people turn the other cheek and through darts to the innocent. I am proud there are still well biding Americans like yourself willing to take a stand.
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Posted: Thu Apr 16th, 2009 04:22 pm |
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Isn’t it great that in our country a man is innocent until proven guilty? Of course, we parents of teen girls may have already passed judgment and, trust me, McDorman should hang.
The bigger issue is how Seaford has a looooooong history of sweeping issues under the rug. Specifically, VanSciver and Davis, as well as Knorr, repeatedly claim innocence. The Seaford NJROTC unit has been implicated in female discrimination, hostile environment, and sexual issues in the past. I know this first hand. I am the parent of a female student who was subject to several improprieties as a senior student at Seaford.
The parent grievance process is a joke at Seaford SHS. It serves only to waste time and stall the parents into giving up. I was one of the few parents who did not give up. I hired a lawyer who went to-to-toe with them. Frankly, it is only the fact that I am a Christian that these folks, including the NJROTC men, even have a job.
Thankfully my daughter is thriving in college despite Davis, VanSciver, and Norman (ROTC commander). She is an NCAA gold and silver athletic winner, and has achieved very high distinction in academics. She is now as wonderful as she was when she attended Seaford SHS; however, the SHS administration did their best to stand in her way on numerous occasions. We had to endure extremely unprofessional, ignorant, and disgusting behavior from each person I have indicated here.
By the way, after warning him that the situation at the SHS was destined to continue, one of the last statements I said to Jim VanSciver was that the behavior of the men involved, and those allowed to have contact with young women at Seaford SHS, will only get worse.
It comes as no surprise to me when I was informed that it truly has become worse, but with yet another female victim.
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Posted: Thu Apr 16th, 2009 02:43 pm |
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| NOW THAT'S A "FACT"!!!!!!
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Posted: Thu Apr 16th, 2009 02:33 pm |
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Posted: Thu Apr 16th, 2009 02:12 pm |
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| I BELIEVE TIM HAS ALREADY PROVEN HIS "CHARACTER" TO THE WORLD HIMSELF!! IT'S NOT GOSSIP WHEN YOU ARE TELLING THE TRUTH ABOUT FACTS YOU KNOW ABOUT SOMEONE. I BELIEVE EVERYONE WOULD AGREE THAT TIM SHOULD HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT THE RIGHT AND WRONG OF HIS ACTIONS. IF TIM WAS A REAL MAN WITH INTELLIGENT THINKING THE "LIGHTBULB" WOULD HAVE COME ON IN HIS BRAIN, AND HE WOULD HAVE KNOWN HIS ACTIONS WERE WRONG, THEREFORE; MAKING HIM REALIZE HE SHOULD HAVE WALKED AWAY. FACT IS HE DROVE THE GIRL IN HIS CAR TO THE HAMPTON INN, HE ASKED FOR AND PAID FOR THE ROOM, AND HE HAD SEX WITH A GIRL WHO WAS OLD ENOUGH TO BE HIS DAUGHTER. HE SHOULD HAVE PUT A "STOP" TO THE WHOLE SITUATION BEFORE IT EVEN GOT STARTED!! THOSE ARE THE FACTS YOU SHOULD BE FOCUSING ON!! TIM IS A MAN WHO KNOWS HE WAS IN THE WRONG, AND APPARENTLY HE IS GOING TO TRY TO COME UP WITH EVERY EXCUSE THERE IS TO TRY TO GET AWAY WITH WHAT HE DID. LET'S SEE HE'S ALREADY STATED "SHE SEDUCED ME", SO I GUESS HIS NEXT COMMENT WILL BE "THE DEVIL MADE ME DO IT!!!" OH YEAH, GOSSIP WOULD BE THAT HE HAD SOMETHING GOING ON WITH THE CHURCH SECRETARY!! SORRY, THAT ISN'T VERY GODLIKE OF ME, SO ALL I CAN SAY IS "THE DEVIL MADE ME DO IT!!!"
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Posted: Wed Apr 15th, 2009 11:30 pm |
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SParent - I think you and I are about the same age, given your comments about graduating from SHS in the 70s. I actually think there were more incidents back in our day, and several were well known by the students, but perhaps not by the staff. We picked up on more things than the staff. I do think that the people involved "hid" it better then. (No, I'm not condoning this either.)
There were no emails, text messages, IMs, or anything in writing (which never go away!) There were more 2-parent homes, so girls weren't looking for acceptance from a man (yes, I know it's not only young girls/older men) they were looking for other things. People were more careful.
If anyone thinks the above means I agree, or blame, or whatever - not the case. Just my opinions based on looking then and now.
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Posted: Wed Apr 15th, 2009 10:52 pm |
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| Wow. It's really sad that some people are so quick to forget FACTS. Some people are trying to "prove" that they know someone's character. But what a shame how SOME PEOPLE use others to get things they want (money for bills they are unable to pay, babysitters, a free handout, etc), then try to spread lies. First of all, Tim is not, was not & has never been the Youth Pastor at ESCC. Those of you "former Church Members' should know that, obviously having attended ESCC. Second, he never "insisted" that church member's children spend the night at his house. Him & his wife were trying to help by babysitting. Have my children spent the night at his house? Yes. Do I trust him with my children? YES. Is he a pedophile like SOME PEOPLE are assuming? HMM...If you had "Bad Vibes" about him from the beginning, like SOME PEOPLE claim, then why did you let your children spend the night at his house??? Lack of judgement on YOUR part, I would say. Second, last time i checked, Hooters is a restaurant that women wear tight shorts and skimpy tops, right? Since when is it a crime to go there? Is it a strip club? Didn't think so. Did he force anyone to go? Was your Husband forced to go? I am so tired of SOME PEOPLE trying to turn the focus away from the facts. Wow, doesn't the BIBLE talk about GOSSIP?? How bout LIES?? If SOME PEOPLE have some problems trying to remember the facts, why don't you call the McDorman household and speak to them directly. I'm sure you know the number...after all, you sure burned his phone up when you were down & out and needed him. Guess there is a good reason you stopped coming to church. Doesn't sound like GODLY comments to me.
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Posted: Wed Apr 15th, 2009 05:09 am |
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| GUESS WHAT?!! HE MADE THE FIRST TEN MINUTES ON WBOC NEWS TONIGHT. WBOC ANNOUNCED THEY WERE MADE AWARE OF HIM BEING A PASTOR AT EASTERN SHORE COMMUNITY CHURCH IN GEORGETOWN, DELAWARE. WONDER IF THEY ARE AWARE OF HIM TAKING HIS MENS GROUP TO HOOTERS IN REHOBOTH BEACH, DELAWARE CAUSE THEY HAVE THE "BEST HOT WINGS IN TOWN!!!"
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Posted: Wed Apr 15th, 2009 01:57 am |
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| actually i am from this area been here all my life graduated from this school in the 70s and no this was not common back then unless they did a good job of burying it. and i never said any of this was acceptable.
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Posted: Wed Apr 15th, 2009 01:29 am |
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SeafordParent wrote: oh i agree he is as guilty as hell for doing this too but people have got to get off the high horse about teenagers being innocent and not knowing what they are doing. most of them do! or you wouldnt be hearing about 10, 11 and 12 year olds having sexual relations. that did not happen in my day believe me. unless it was the south 
Sorry, but I don't understand your sarcasism, unless it was the south. Some of the things that go on in Delaware are not things to be proud of. . .The ignorant and uneducated think it is acceptable to behave like animals. This happens everywhere in the world.
I don't know how old you are, but ten years ago, kids would not have had the opportunity to see what they see on TV today. You cannot turn on a TV show that does not make reference to sex. At SHS, some of our students' parents are dating other high school students. There is a prominent family in the area that one of its members married the babysitter several years ago. Maybe you are not from Seaford, but it has been going on forever in Sussex County. It does not make it right.
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Posted: Wed Apr 15th, 2009 01:29 am |
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SeafordParent wrote: oh i agree he is as guilty as hell for doing this too but people have got to get off the high horse about teenagers being innocent and not knowing what they are doing. most of them do! or you wouldnt be hearing about 10, 11 and 12 year olds having sexual relations. that did not happen in my day believe me. unless it was the south
Sorry, but I don't understand your sarcasism, unless it was the south. Some of the things that go on in Delaware are not things to be proud of. . .The ignorant and uneducated think it is acceptable to behave like animals. This happens everywhere in the world.
I don't know how old you are, but ten years ago, kids would not have had the opportunity to see what they see on TV today. You cannot turn on a TV show that does not make reference to sex. At SHS, some of our students' parents are dating other high school students. There is a prominent family in the area that one of its members married the babysitter several years ago. Maybe you are not from Seaford, but it has been going on forever in Sussex County. It does not make it right.
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Posted: Wed Apr 15th, 2009 12:17 am |
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| oh i agree he is as guilty as hell for doing this too but people have got to get off the high horse about teenagers being innocent and not knowing what they are doing. most of them do! or you wouldnt be hearing about 10, 11 and 12 year olds having sexual relations. that did not happen in my day believe me. unless it was the south
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Posted: Wed Apr 15th, 2009 12:09 am |
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A normal person would not be seduced. Seduction has to be accepted for it to go any further. When a child is involved, the adult has to control the situation and stop it. A normal person would not hide it, they would have reported it. A child can't make you do something unless you want to let it happen. If you believe that a child causes someone to commit child abuse, I have concerns about you or anyone else who believes that way.
I agree there are some teenagers that can look a lot older than they are, but once the other person knows that they are a minor, the relationship needs to stop. Educators at any level should never get involved with one of their students. Children that seduce adults or get involved in a situation like this one need help and help now. I hope that this young woman's family is getting her help so that she can have a normal adult life. There is no excuse for his actions or anyone else in his position.
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Posted: Tue Apr 14th, 2009 11:39 pm |
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SOS wrote: A child can't seduce a 49 year old man.
boy are you wrong! dont tell me that a teenage girl cannot entice an older man. did not a 17 year old girl just marry a 40+ year old man because the guys wife died tragically?
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Posted: Tue Apr 14th, 2009 11:38 pm |
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Godly wrote: TimeForFacts,
Worse thing that the news doesn't mention is he was an acting Pastor at a local church and used to be a "youth" Pastor.
Godly
they did tonight on the news
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Posted: Tue Apr 14th, 2009 11:13 pm |
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Yes, Timmy is sick. The next thing we might hear is that the devil made him do it. A child can't seduce a 49 year old man. Kids today are confused because of early abuse, seeing what their parents do in front of them and what they see on TV or in the movies. It is the role of the adult to help these confused children, not play a role. When he received the first text message or the first picture, he should have contacted one of the administrators. i mentioned earlier how his behavior harmed education professionals, but the list goes on. He was just added to the list of religious leaders and the military personnel who have performed sick acts.
This happens way too much in our society. I agree with the post that suggested a full investigation of this incident. There are students saying that they brought their concerns to a responsible person, and some parents are saying that their kids had concerns. Look what happened. If any of these rumors are true, then then we overlooked a serious case of child abuse. This girl's parents have the right to sue the district and anyone who knew and did not act according to the state guidelines on reporting child support.
Mr. Davis stated that he had the appropriate background checks and passed. Tim probably did these things in the Navy and in the Church, but no one reported his activity or they moved him. Very similar to the Catholic church. He has probably been slipping through the system pulling rank for years. Another concern in education is that some of these people resign, and legally get off and go to another school district somewhere else in the US. Seaford should have fired him.
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Posted: Tue Apr 14th, 2009 10:56 pm |
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| God will make him pay Last edited on Thu Apr 16th, 2009 09:16 pm by Godly
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Posted: Tue Apr 14th, 2009 10:28 pm |
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| CAN'T BELIEVE A 49 YEAR OLD MAN WHO CALLED HIMSELF A PASTOR HAS THE NERVE TO SAY "SHE SEDUCED ME!!!" COME ON TIM DO YOU REALLY THINK WE ARE ALL THAT FREAKING STUPID?!! YOU HAVE TWO OLDER SONS AND THIS GIRL WAS OLD ENOUGH TO BE YOUR DAUGHTER. HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF SOMEONE DID THIS CRIME TO ONE OF YOUR BOYS? IF YOU WERE ANY KIND OF MAN YOU WOULD HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT THE FACT THAT THIS TYPE OF SITUATION WASN'T RIGHT, AND YOU WOULD HAVE STOPPED IT BEFORE IT WENT AS FAR AS IT DID. HOWEVER, IT'S OBIVIOUS BEING THE SICK MAN YOU ARE YOU WERE USING THE BRAIN BETWEEN YOUR LEGS INSTEAD OF THE BRAIN IN YOUR HEAD THATS ATTACHED TO YOUR SHOULDERS!! ANYONE WITH ANY INTEGRITY, COMMON SENSE, SELF CONTROL, AND VALUES WOULD HAVE KNOWN TO PUT A "STOP" TO THIS SITUATION BEFORE IT STARTED IN THE FIRST PLACE! MAY GOD HAVE MERCY ON YOU AND YOUR SOUL!! CAUSE WHEN YOU GET TIME FOR YOUR CRIME "BUBBA" ISN'T GONNA BE SOOOOO MERCIFUL!!! LET'S JUST SAY PAYBACK IS A B**CH!!! ISN'T IT?
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Posted: Tue Apr 14th, 2009 07:27 pm |
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| God is all over this! Last edited on Thu Apr 16th, 2009 09:16 pm by Godly
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Posted: Tue Apr 14th, 2009 07:08 pm |
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TimeForFacts,
Worse thing that the news doesn't mention is he was an acting Pastor at a local church and used to be a "youth" Pastor.
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Posted: Tue Apr 14th, 2009 07:05 pm |
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| Great Post. As it is all about the intergity and respect! That is why there are programs like that in the public schools.
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Posted: Tue Apr 14th, 2009 07:04 pm |
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| This dude is a sicko. The worse part about all this is he was a Pastor at a Church - just stating the facts Last edited on Thu Apr 16th, 2009 09:17 pm by Godly
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| I agree there are great benefits to the JROTC program. I've seen how well this program works for many years with many different instructors. I also agree that the students will have enough to deal with when they return. My problem is that students in the JROTC program did indeed go to their senior chief and tell him of the inappropriate actions of the instructor. The incident that took place were not his first disgusting and vulgar actions. Where does the liability lay? It seems to me that when students speak concerns to authority it should be taken seriously. I just hope and pray that this will be an ongoing investigation and not just swept under the carpet because school is on break. The administration at the high school needs to conduct an investigation that involves the students, it also needs to investigate the entire running of the program. It would be a shame if a program that is so positive and important to children gets scarred. The saying, "out of the mouth of babes" has not been around all this time for no reason.
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| Thank you for your response. Finally, someone has something beneficial to state! The JROTC program is of great importance despite the incident that has occurred. The remaining Senior Chief deserves support and respect for the hard work he has put into the SHS program. The staff and students will have enough to deal with when they return from Spring Break.
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Posted: Mon Apr 13th, 2009 09:48 pm |
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Copied below is a letter to the editor submitted to the Delaware State News. You can post your opinions by clicking on "Reply."
I’m writing in response to the recent story of a Junior ROTC instructor who betrayed the trust of a young girl at Seaford High School. I am currently serving in the position of a Junior ROTC instructor here in central Delaware and I felt I needed to speak up on this subject.
Contrary to popular belief, the mission of JROTC programs isn’t recruiting high school students into the US Military. As JROTC instructors we are charged to develop better citizens through the use of solid values, self discipline, and community service. This vocation is challenging yet highly rewarding. And those that choose it usually do so because they believe they can make a difference in the lives of others. I chose this profession because I thought I could utilize the leadership skills I gleaned from twenty years of service in the US Air Force. I did however learn more than just leadership. I learned that core values are more than just a slogan from a military poster. It is unfortunate that Mr. McDorman missed two of the most important military core values.
1) Integrity First – Integrity is a character trait. It is the willingness to do what is right even when no one is looking. He lost this moral compass or he never had one.
2) Service Before Self – Many people think this just means military service, not so. The scope of this service is much wider. It means putting your family, your troops, your mission, and your community above your own wants and needs. In a nutshell, be selfless. He failed at every aspect of service before self. He failed his family, his cadets, his profession, and his community.
I hope everyone realizes that the actions of this failed instructor are an anomaly in the world of JROTC. There are nearly twenty programs across the Delmarva Peninsula and they are manned by some of the finest Officers and NCOs our military has to offer. These Soldiers, Sailors, Marines, and Airmen are focused on the overall success of today’s young people. They embody military core values and lead by example. So please take heart in knowing that Mr. McDorman’s behavior is in no way indicative of the other JROTC instructors found here in Delaware.
Jay Wedel
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Posted: Mon Apr 13th, 2009 05:04 pm |
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| well i am not tearing down the rotc program over this one incident, i am mearly pointing out that these events seem to be common place. i think 5 days suspension is kind of lenient for this, these students should be expelled. the consequences are not tough enough
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I have rarely visited this site but in light of the current situation at the SSHS I felt impelled to comment. The comment about inappropriate behavior on the bus while on a trip to New York is just straight up a lie. I too know the mother and she would not have said that. Yes there was an incident while on the trip but not on the bus but rather at the hotel. There were several school staff members and at least 10 other parent chaperones on this trip with only 40 students. I must say the supervision should have been adequate to satisfy any skeptic. The two students did engage in inappropriate contact, they were caught, they were suspended for 5 days and banned from any other trips. If teenagers are going to engage in poor behavior there is little you can do to stop them. If you can't understand this then you obviously have no idea about what it means to raise teenage children. You provide them with a sound home life, rules with consequences and then stick by your decision. So many of these students have no solid foundation at home and the only structure they receive is the ROTC program. Believe it or not they want structure and that is a key reason why the enrollment in the program reached nearly 25 percent of the student body.
For those of you that bash the program you have no idea about the goals, design and purpose. Much of the curriculum supports other core subjects in our H.S. and on top of that teaches leadership and discipline which is definately needed in our society. This program in the past 4 years has generated over 2 million dollars worth of scholarships to our students at SSHS. Name another program that has provided this? You can not!
In closing the recent incident is a blem on our school system, educators in general, the navy and the rotc program. This sick man was only at the school less than 6 months. Do not tear down a program that has been here since 1993 because of one individual. Now is a time to support the school, the lone instructor and the 160 plus students/cadets and families that are all in shock.
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You are absolutely right! They are not allegations but facts. Once again Seaford decides who they go after and who they leave alone. I was a teacher in the district for many years and even though I never personally had any problems I saw my share of go after/leave alone. I never really did understand how this was decided and still don't.
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| or as bad as the student of a staff member who had relations with a girl in the baseball locker room my niece told me about last week. want to deny that one? sounds like poor supervision to me! or how about the staff member who resigned last year for his relations with a senior? want to deny that one which never hit the news? give me a break! Last edited on Sun Apr 12th, 2009 01:50 am by SeafordParent
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Posted: Sat Apr 11th, 2009 11:05 pm |
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NorthWind09 wrote: Absolutely. Not. True. I was there. Please don't speculate and spread hurtful gossip in a public forum where students, staff, parents and community members may read it.
whocaresanymore wrote:
What... it's not like the ROTC had a girl get pregnant on the bus trip last year to NYC, or so I was told. 2 freshmen I believe, and no one caught them... EVERYONE was on the bus...
Really? Because I heard it straight from the mother of the girl who got pregnant on the trip....
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Absolutely. Not. True. I was there. Please don't speculate and spread hurtful gossip in a public forum where students, staff, parents and community members may read it.
whocaresanymore wrote:
What... it's not like the ROTC had a girl get pregnant on the bus trip last year to NYC, or so I was told. 2 freshmen I believe, and no one caught them... EVERYONE was on the bus...
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SOS wrote: Two Cents wrote: Incredibly sad!
I agree, it is very sad for our profession. Each time an incident like this happens, it taints all people involved in education. This program has had its problems throughout the years, but this one is the worse.
I would think twice before I would allow my daughters to participate in this program. We are all aware of the problems that women who attend military academies and serve our country are faced with. The harassment and sexual abuse is illegal, but we seem to just pass on the blame.
After this incident, maybe the school district should focus on not allowing this program to spend so much time on weekend trips.
What... it's not like the ROTC had a girl get pregnant on the bus trip last year to NYC, or so I was told. 2 freshmen I believe, and no one caught them... EVERYONE was on the bus...
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| they were? then i wouldve read it about int he paper just like this one would I have not?
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SeafordParent wrote: dont play dumb you talk like an unhappy teacher you know what i am refering to. they have had a few other inappropriate teacher student relationships their over the past few years they have kept quiet
Not unhappy, just stating the facts.
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Posted: Fri Apr 10th, 2009 02:04 am |
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| The ones I know about were arrested.
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Posted: Fri Apr 10th, 2009 01:44 am |
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| dont play dumb you talk like an unhappy teacher you know what i am refering to. they have had a few other inappropriate teacher student relationships their over the past few years they have kept quiet
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Posted: Fri Apr 10th, 2009 01:28 am |
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SeafordParent wrote: i will just say what i always say, why am i not surprised? i guess they couldn't sweep this one under the rug like the last couple.
I am confused about this comment.
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Posted: Fri Apr 10th, 2009 12:23 am |
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Two Cents wrote: Incredibly sad!
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Posted: Fri Apr 10th, 2009 12:22 am |
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Two Cents wrote: Incredibly sad!
I agree, it is very sad for our profession. Each time an incident like this happens, it taints all people involved in education. This program has had its problems throughout the years, but this one is the worse.
I would think twice before I would allow my daughters to participate in this program. We are all aware of the problems that women who attend military academies and serve our country are faced with. The harassment and sexual abuse is illegal, but we seem to just pass on the blame.
After this incident, maybe the school district should focus on not allowing this program to spend so much time on weekend trips.
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Posted: Thu Apr 9th, 2009 09:38 pm |
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| i will just say what i always say, why am i not surprised? i guess they couldn't sweep this one under the rug like the last couple. Last edited on Thu Apr 9th, 2009 09:58 pm by SeafordParent
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Posted: Thu Apr 9th, 2009 07:59 pm |
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| Incredibly sad!
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Posted: Thu Apr 9th, 2009 07:55 pm |
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ROTC Instructor Arrested for Sexually Assaulting Student
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SEAFORD, Del.- A now-former ROTC instructor at Seaford High School is facing sexual assault and related charges after being accused of having an inappropriate relationship with one of his teenage students.
The investigation began Wednesday when the teen victim's mother notified authorities of an alarming text message she located on her daughter's cellular telephone that morning. Police say the message clearly indicated the sender was involved in sexual activity with her daughter. According to police, the mother was able to determine that the sender was 49-year-old Timothy J. McDorman of Lincoln.
Authorities say school officials and police were immediately notified and an ensuing investigation revealed that McDorman did in fact send the sexually explicit text message to the victim. Additionally, investigators say they learned the two were involved in a relationship since October 2008 that involved the victim sending several nude photographs of herself to McDorman's cell phone. The relationship continued and in March of this year, the pair had engaged in sexual intercourse, according to police.
Police also say detectives have identified 15 sexually explicit photographs that were received by McDorman that depicted the victim naked.
As a result of the investigation, McDorman was arrested and charged with 15 counts of using a computer to unlawfully depict a child engaging in a prohibited sexual act, one count of fourth-degree rape and 15 counts of possession of child pornography. He was released after posting a $100,000 secured bail.
According to Bonnie Johnson, a spokesperson for the Seaford School District, McDorman is no longer an employee of the district.
"He resigned effective April 8, 2009, prior to his arrest," Johnson said.
Courtesy of WBOC
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