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Old Smyrna
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Posted: Sat Jun 27th, 2009 03:57 am |
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| I'm not talking about blaming the victim. There's a huge difference between being a victim and a willing participant. I'm talking about girls in high school, not little children. Look at the latest incident right here at Smyrna High. Two girls, 16 or 17 years old, and a teacher. I don't think any of the three are "innocent". But because of their age and his, and his being in a "position of trust" he went to jail. In my opinion he should still be locked up. I'm not a puritan, I think a woman should be able to dress as she pleases and it's nobody's business. But to dress like a hooker, act like a hooker, do the deed and then claim to be innocent. I don't think so. But blame the victim, no not me! I'm a firm believer in the offenders list and think everyone has the right to know who's living around them. I agreed with a previous post that there should be a list for violent offenders too. It's a shame good law abiding citizens have to live like this.
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Posted: Fri Jun 26th, 2009 03:38 pm |
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Old Smyrna wrote: Glad to hear you're not on the list! And I agree with you about teenage sex and how rampant it is. I used to watch Married With Children, but look at what those kids had for role models. A Mom that was do ditzy she didn't know which way was up, and a father that was a total jerk. Now I betcha by today's standards, that fella would make the list real quick! You raise your kids to be the best they can be, with respect for others and themselves, and hope all your hard work pays off and they learn and listen. I live on one of the more well worn routes to the high school, and it's scarey to look at some of these kids and think they're the future. The foul mouths, touchey/feelie, ignorant actions are disgusting. What kind of examples are being set for them at home if they act like that in public? And the schools don't help. I've seen, several times on this forum, people complaining about the way teachers dress. No good example there. Look how many teachers are being locked up for having sex with their students. That's rape only because of the age difference and position of trust, the underaged little buggers are going gleefully to the deed, baiting the teachers with provocative dress and behavior.
Talk about blaming the victim! I suppose the woman who wears a low cut dress or mini skirt is asking for it too?
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Posted: Tue Jun 23rd, 2009 01:26 pm |
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Old Smyrna wrote: Glad to hear you're not on the list! And I agree with you about teenage sex and how rampant it is. I used to watch Married With Children, but look at what those kids had for role models. A Mom that was do ditzy she didn't know which way was up, and a father that was a total jerk. Now I betcha by today's standards, that fella would make the list real quick! You raise your kids to be the best they can be, with respect for others and themselves, and hope all your hard work pays off and they learn and listen. I live on one of the more well worn routes to the high school, and it's scarey to look at some of these kids and think they're the future. The foul mouths, touchey/feelie, ignorant actions are disgusting. What kind of examples are being set for them at home if they act like that in public? And the schools don't help. I've seen, several times on this forum, people complaining about the way teachers dress. No good example there. Look how many teachers are being locked up for having sex with their students. That's rape only because of the age difference and position of trust, the underaged little buggers are going gleefully to the deed, baiting the teachers with provocative dress and behavior.
Hey OSG
Tonight ABC Prime Time would be a good show to watch tonight
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Posted: Tue Jun 23rd, 2009 04:11 am |
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| Pretty soon you folks won't have the list to agonize over any longer. Your Democrat Congress in Washington is passing legislation that, in effect, makes many 'prohibitied behaviors' legal as a way of protecting sexual orientation. They have consistently voted down any amendments that exclude pedophilia and other stuff we used to consider out of bounds. You concerned mommies really ought to look at what's in the bill passed by the House and the contents of the Senate version. I doubt our two Senators will read them before they leap up and vote 'aye' when Harry Reid tells them to jump for Obama.
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Posted: Mon Jun 22nd, 2009 12:57 pm |
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Old Smyrna wrote: ..... You raise your kids to be the best they can be, with respect for others and themselves, and hope all your hard work pays off and they learn and listen. ....
Sadly, we only need to read what many of them post in these forums to realize that we have failed miserably!
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Old Smyrna
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Posted: Mon Jun 22nd, 2009 07:27 am |
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| Glad to hear you're not on the list! And I agree with you about teenage sex and how rampant it is. I used to watch Married With Children, but look at what those kids had for role models. A Mom that was do ditzy she didn't know which way was up, and a father that was a total jerk. Now I betcha by today's standards, that fella would make the list real quick! You raise your kids to be the best they can be, with respect for others and themselves, and hope all your hard work pays off and they learn and listen. I live on one of the more well worn routes to the high school, and it's scarey to look at some of these kids and think they're the future. The foul mouths, touchey/feelie, ignorant actions are disgusting. What kind of examples are being set for them at home if they act like that in public? And the schools don't help. I've seen, several times on this forum, people complaining about the way teachers dress. No good example there. Look how many teachers are being locked up for having sex with their students. That's rape only because of the age difference and position of trust, the underaged little buggers are going gleefully to the deed, baiting the teachers with provocative dress and behavior.
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Posted: Sun Jun 21st, 2009 03:38 pm |
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| Oop! --- while I don't believe it to be a good thing for young people to be sexually active, I do believe that if they are going to do so, it is wise and prudent to try to ensure that babies do not result. Babies having babies is disatrous.
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Posted: Sun Jun 21st, 2009 03:25 pm |
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Old Smyrna wrote: oop - You're a warped individual. Are you on the list, is that what's making you take such a strange position on this
No I'm not on the list.
Nor do I think I am warped in asking you that question about allowing young girls to have birth control at the age the state allows it .
At no point in time do I think teenagers should be having sex , with or with out their parents knowledge .
The Show Married with child portrays more then any one would choose to admit about the young children of the past 30 years.
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Posted: Sat Jun 20th, 2009 04:35 am |
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| oop - You're a warped individual. Are you on the list, is that what's making you take such a strange position on this?
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Posted: Sat Jun 20th, 2009 03:24 am |
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That may be all well to warn but before the warning , the registry is not aways telling the whole story.
Most people do not call and ask the police, when you see a 4 degree rape charge you automatically loose train of thought. Rape is the 4 letter word that gives fear or anger.
If you call and ask the police the particular of said case they only tell you the charges , and nothing more.
Most of these cases are consensual sex ( person say it's ok ) but laws say different , parents say different . the kid between the ages of 12 and 16 are having sex but it's not legal
You say you keep your grand kids close by , are you going to let them have birth control at the age of 9 , 10 ,11 don't think so but the state does and they don't have to tell
I ask who do you think they are having sex with ? Aren't they going to be charge are they trapping them ?
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Old Smyrna
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Posted: Sun Jun 14th, 2009 01:33 am |
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| Nope, I keep a close eye on my grandkids when they're out in the yard. You're right about violent crime offenders though, there should be a posted list for them too. I've never posted an alarm on a web site, but I've waved the flag warning the neighbors on one or two occasions. And they're neighbors that have kids and grandchildren running around. I'm not arguing that it's right for all of them to be on the list, but if you do the crime, this is part of it. When you molest someone, especially a kid, in my opinion you turn into an instant dirt bag and being put on a list is too little too late. That's why these low lifes are kept under special conditions in our prisons. The other inmates would do them some serious damage if they were in the general population. And deservidly so. Right now on WBOC's website they have a 35 year old man in Felton arrested for child porn. One of the comments is from a person who's kid goes to a daycare near where this guy lives. If you have kids or grandkids, what would you think of that? Tell ya what though, "Gather in mobs and beat them up" does sound like a good idea. I don't worry about the criminal, I pray for the victim. The criminal had a choice and made a poor one, the victim didn't have any say at all.
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Posted: Sun Jun 14th, 2009 12:12 am |
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Old Smyrna wrote: I agree there may be the odd few that really don't belong on a list of this sort, but the public good far outweighs the bad.
This is the part that puzzles me. What is the 'public good' that is served by knowing someone has a sex crimes past? Wouldn't most of us want to know just as much if people around them have a history of violent behavior [murder, robbery, etc.]? What do you do with the informationm other than post alarms on websites? Gather in mobs to go beat them up? Put an extra nail in the door to keep them out?
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Posted: Sat Jun 13th, 2009 08:39 pm |
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oop! you seem to know a lot about this, is there an appeals process to get off these lists? I see a lot of them coming through my email, and I'd say 99% or more are for sex crimes, not just a butt flash or magazine laying around. I agree there may be the odd few that really don't belong on a list of this sort, but the public good far outweighs the bad. And it's amazing most of the victims are young. I wonder how many are family members being molested by elders? In any event, I don't want any of this type of people living anywhere around me or my family.
Mayor Stombaugh - when is the town going to bring the proposed ordanance restricting sex offenders back before council?
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Posted: Fri Jun 12th, 2009 04:22 pm |
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slow n easy wrote: Does anyone know why we were not told that two sex offender are employed on our street which is New St. in Smyrna. I called TOS and they are going to get back with us. I have a in home day care I should had been notified. And the TOS have no records of a business name that they have listed for employment Cutler's Custom Care of 125 N. High St one is High Risk and the other is Moderate. Just like Smyrna Middle School never notified us that their was a Sex offender that attends SMS that was in the same gym class with my step son and yes they have to dress out.And he was at moderate risk. A lot of loose ends here wake up people. But I do feel bad for such a young boy to have that on his record. BUT NOW I AM DEMANDING ANSWERS FOR THIS IS THREE PEOPLE THAT WE WERE NOT NOTIFIED ABOUT HOW MANY MORE IS THEIR ???????????
Slow and easy
Do you know that there are offenders on the list , that have only committed crimes such as mooning or having play boy books that children have looked at in other people home with out their knowledge , Or how about people being sent unsolicited e-mail because they went into a web site that was connected to unknown with out their knowledge ?
How about granny who had grand baby pic done at wal-marts , then there's 3 year olds who had to go pee the list goes on before you rant and rave check it it out.
The mirror is giving a distorted image it may need to be broken
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Posted: Fri Jun 12th, 2009 02:28 pm |
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| I know at the schools they get posts about sex offenders and believe me the book is full......
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Posted: Thu Jun 11th, 2009 01:50 pm |
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I do believe under Megan's Law all states are to provide this information so that the public can be informed. There are websites you can go to or you can have your local areas e-mailed to you
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Hartlyboy
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Posted: Thu Jun 11th, 2009 05:35 am |
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| I wonder, is Delaware the only state that provides this 'service' [a list of people with past criminal offenses for sex offenses only] or are there other governments who feel the compulsion to provide such information?
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Posted: Thu Jun 11th, 2009 03:30 am |
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| I hate to add to your fuming, but there is no law or regulation about them living near a daycare. The only thing that can be pushed is if they're within 500' of a school. You can sign up to have offender notices sent to you via email. I got notices on the ones on New St earlier this week, one was new, the other has lived there for a while. PM me and I'll give you the email address if you want it. If you check the state police website they have a link to the offerders lists. It'll make your head spin with the number that live in and around the Smyrna/Clayton area. There's a whole nest of them at 47 E. Commerce St.
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Posted: Wed Jun 10th, 2009 05:20 pm |
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| Does anyone know why we were not told that two sex offender are employed on our street which is New St. in Smyrna. I called TOS and they are going to get back with us. I have a in home day care I should had been notified. And the TOS have no records of a business name that they have listed for employment Cutler's Custom Care of 125 N. High St one is High Risk and the other is Moderate. Just like Smyrna Middle School never notified us that their was a Sex offender that attends SMS that was in the same gym class with my step son and yes they have to dress out.And he was at moderate risk. A lot of loose ends here wake up people. But I do feel bad for such a young boy to have that on his record. BUT NOW I AM DEMANDING ANSWERS FOR THIS IS THREE PEOPLE THAT WE WERE NOT NOTIFIED ABOUT HOW MANY MORE IS THEIR ???????????
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